Experience is the best teacher, it’s the best life changer, it’s the one size that fits all. You’ve heard the phrase, “don’t get too close to the fire.” This fire will either do one of three things, it will either burn you, kill you or energize or heat you up. Those three, which I call the perfect trifecta, are all you need to change your crap be mental outlook. If someone tells you don’t get too close to the fire because you’re going to burn or you’re going to kill yourself you got that. But if somebody tells you to not get too close to the fire because it will alter and re-frame your life than hey maybe more people will sacrifice the 3rd° for the first position.

Most of us are old dogs with zero new tricks at our disposal. We just tend to gravitate in gyrate in the retarded Lane for days on end. We could give a flying rip what would happen next. What is it that keeps us from moving on? Are we just too lazy, or scared or just downright fearful of the next move. Or is it just were so locked in or stuck? Maybe a “no move” is the easiest, but far from the best!

Brain surgery is a non-option even though that may be your only option. Someone else’s noggin sometimes just doesn’t work so good. We hate to admit it that it’s ours but if we don’t all our fans will.

What’s apparent here, is that choice must come first before the gurney. We have to allow ourselves the room or for some, an entire medical wing, to get us back to current specs.